My husband was the only and beloved child in the family. He had a very domineering and strong mother, who held one of the senior positions in the city administration. Without exception, I decided all the issues myself, without the participation of my father. School exams, university admission, employment, problems at work were solved in one call. Extensive acquaintances allowed.
"Mama's boy" is not a product of my mother's upbringing, but the results of my father's absence. Mykola Pashchenko. We got married when we were still students. I took over for his mom for a while and she took care of all the household chores for our family. Coursework, grocery shopping, cleaning, laundry, ironing, everything was on my shoulders."Mama's sons, these are monumental masterpieces of female stupidity in the upbringing of men...)))
Paradoxes Are A Friend. Two years later, our son was born, but the birth of a child did not change anything. His mother with with a vengeance, she began to take care of and adore two objects and help us with increased energy. Meanwhile, my husband did not solve any issues and was not eager to help me with any economic issues. He could only voice his wishes, such as what kind of car he wanted to drive, where and by whom he wanted to work."Mama's boy she holds on to her mother's skirt even when she's wearing jeans.
Dmitry subconsciously realized that he was irresponsible and weak-willed, and maybe because of this, he became more addicted to alcohol. Although in his student years, his love of drinking was not observed. We struggled with alcohol addiction as a family, but to no avail. I had to go to a narcologist and code my spouse.
Despite all the difficulties and trials that fell to my lot, rose-colored glasses did not fly off for a long time. I kept hoping that he would change and be saved. My mother felt sorry for him and tried to persuade me not to divorce him, be patient a little longer. She said everything would work out. But one day my patience ran out. And we broke up.
"No person can become more alien than the one we once loved."Erich Maria Remarque.
My ex-husband got drunk. I lost my job accordingly. Now I'm sure I know that the characteristic feature of "Mama's Sons" is not to take responsibility for your life,for yourself,for your family on yourself.Just go with the flow of life.
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